8 Steps to Starting Over & Getting What You Want in Your 30s

At some point in your 30s, you realise the life you built doesn't fit anymore - and neither does the version of you who built it.

This isn’t about fixing the past - it’s about claiming your future. It’s about leading yourself from who you were told to be to who you actually are. Because starting over isn’t the problem - it’s knowing how to do it in a way that actually gets you what you want this time.

You’ll walk away this event seeing yourself differently - certain of what you want, clear on what’s next, and finally done with the waiting.

Why we created this…

Because starting over in your 30s looks different. It’s less about fixing things and more about figuring out what actually feels good now and moving forward.

Less hustle, more honesty.

Less “what should I do?” and more “who even am I?”

This isn’t another 'motivational self help' event.

This is THE event that changing everything. Something grounded. Something powerful. 8 steps to reconnect to your voice, your values, and your vision - and start living as the woman you’ve always known you could be.

When You Know Something’s Off...

You might not have words for it yet - but you can feel it.

• The job that once felt exciting now drains you.
• The relationship that looked looked right on paper doesn’t feel right in real life
• You’re tired of being just “fine.”
• You’ve hit pause on dreams you can’t quite let go of.
• You know something has to shift - you just don’t know where to start.

You’re not behind. You’re not broken. You’re just ready to start over

When you’re ready to start again…

Starting over isn’t about beginning from nothing - it’s about choosing differently, this time with clarity. It's:

✔️Saying what you actually want even if it changes everything.
✔️Making decisions that match who you’ve become, not who you used to be.

✔️Letting go of timelines and expectations that where never yours.

✔️Doing the uncomfortable things that move you forward.

✔️Learning to trust yourself again - in work, in love, in what you want next.

Because getting what you want doesn’t happen by chance - it happens when you follow the right steps.

These are those 8 Steps.

Meet the Founders

Bianca Skeete & Abbey Jones

We’ve spent years refining the exact framework that moves you from stuck to certain, from second-guessing to self-trusting.

8 Steps to Starting Over & Getting What You Want in Your 30s is where you learn it. Clear. Grounded. Life-changing.

We’ve rebuilt businesses, left the wrong paths, and created lives that actually feel good and purposeful. Not because it was easy, but because we learnt how to lead ourselves through it - again and again with clarity, certainty, and choice.

That’s what became The 8 Steps came from. They weren’t designed in a boardroom; they were created by us and shaped by real life. By the lessons, the reflection, and the work it takes to rebuild from within.

Over the last five years, we’ve immersed ourselves in coaching, meditation and self development programmes, living together in Bali and guiding women all over the world through their own chapters of change.

We’ve lived these steps, refined them, tested them, and now, for the first time, we’re sharing them live with you - the women who are ready to do the same - the ones who know it’s not too late, it’s just time to start leading themselves differently.

Because getting what you want isn’t luck.

It’s a process.

And we’ll show you exactly how to create it.

The location: The May Fair Hotel Cinema

One of the largest private screening rooms in London and its is OURS for the night! In this live session, we’ll take you through all 8 Steps - the exact process we use to rebuild with direction, confidence, and choice.

Each step is designed to help you see what’s ending, get clear on what you want next, and know exactly how to bridge that gap. You’ll experience reflection prompts, honest conversation, and real-time coaching that moves you from stuck to certain - all on the big screen, in one unforgettable, unmissable night.

Hosted live by Bianca Skeete, co-founder of Her Thirties.

Choose below how you want to experience it - in the room with us or online from the comfort of your own home from anywhere in the world.

You might wonder...after completing the 8 steps how will you know that starting over was even the right thing to do?Us: "When your mind is no longer governed by the past and when you feel peace in situations where you used to feel tension. You more easily connect with what feels good, what feels fun and happily use boundaries to protect your well-being. Starting over is real when your mind feels lighter and loving yourself comes more naturally."

And we cant wait for that for you, love.

See you on November 14th!