Beautifully Boundaried: Creating Healthy Agreements in Non-Monogamy

Beautifully Boundaried:

Creating Healthy Agreements in Non-Monogamy

If you’ve ever felt unsure whether it’s okay to ask for what you need, struggled to tell the difference between a healthy boundary or a rule that feels limiting, or found yourself feeling overwhelmed by jealousy, fear, or self-doubt — you’re not alone.

Whether you're brand new to non-monogamy or years into it, navigating agreements, expectations, and emotional safety can be a beautifully expansive and incredibly complex experience. This webinar is here to help you feel more grounded, connected, and clear.

You’ll learn how to create and communicate boundaries that are rooted in your values rather than fear — and gain tools to explore tricky feelings with compassion, confidence, and care for everyone involved.

✨ What We’ll Explore:

• Reprogramming Monogamy Scripts: Rebuilding structure from choice, not conditioning
• Rules vs. Boundaries: How to ask for what you need without controlling others
• Fear Beneath the Feeling: Is it jealousy, insecurity, or something else?
• Managing jelousy: it's not always bad to be jealous
• Values-Based Decisions: Letting your core guide you (not panic or pressure)
• Discomfort vs. Pain: Tools to help you stay present with hard feelings
• When Your Brain Says Yes But Your Heart Hurts: Understanding inner conflict
• Creating Secure Foundations: How to feel safe in flexible dynamics
• Why Communication Isn’t Everything (But It’s Close): Tools that really help
• Co-Creating Relationship Agreements: Making things feel supportive, not stifling
• Knowing When It's Too Much: Why non-monogamy isn’t failure if it’s not for you

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need the willingness to stay curious, connected, and kind — to yourself and your partners.

Come join us to build clarity, courage, and beautifully boundaried relationships.

Who it’s for:

• People currently in or exploring non-monogamous relationships
• Anyone struggling with boundary-setting, emotional regulation, or communication in open relationships
• Curious individuals wanting to build stronger, more secure connections.

🎁 What's included:

• 2 hour live webinar with Alice and Matthew Lovegood (recording available for 30 days)
• Q&A segment to get your burning questions answered
• Optional digital resource bundle to go deeper after the session

About Your Facilitators:

Alice Lovegood (she/her): An award-winning Sex Educator, conscious kink practitioner, and content creator passionate about destigmatising sex, kink, and non-traditional relationships. Queer, polyamorous, married and a mother of three, she blends lived experience with trauma-informed education to help people reconnect with their bodies, desires, and power so they can live authentically. She writes at Bettersx.blog and hosts Bound to Meet, a popular kink speed social event that centres connection and consent. Alice creates space for people to explore pleasure with curiosity, courage, and community.

Matthew Lovegood (He/ Him), Alice's husband and partner of 11 years, also a certified conscious kink practitioner and sex educator with a passion for psychology in kink and relationships. Having embarked on their non-monogamous journey 2 years ago they have learned the importance of honest and realistic support and advice and strive to provide that.

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*We have used the term non-monogamy throughout because it can be overwhelming to know where under non-monogamy we fall. At Bettersx we believe it is not up to anyone else to dictate or decide who or how we identify. The information and education shared will likely be useful for all non- monogamous people but most helpful for those who are/ are seeking polyamory or relationship anarchy.