Decentre Romantic Relationships

Decentre Romantic Relationships

Romance is no longer the main character. You are!

Are you ready for this life upgrade?

This online event is for you if in the past you have:

✨ Treated attention as validation
✨ Shrunk, softened, over-given or self-edited to be more likeable for a romantic interest
✨ Rushed to connect just to avoid being on your own
✨ Ignored your own discomfort or red flags to keep something going
✨ Made someone else the emotional centre of your world

But now you're ready for a RESET, a dynamic change and are curious about the international 'DECENTERING' movement and how it can help you to CENTRE YOURSELF, focus on your own needs, preferences and development for a season or longer.

When romantic relationships stop being the centre of your life…

✨ Your nervous system calms down
Less emotional rollercoasters based on texts, tone shifts, or someone pulling away.

✨ Your self-worth stabilises
You’re not measuring your value by who wants you, chooses you, or stays.

✨ You stop over-tolerating
Red flags don’t get rebranded as “potential” or “they just need time.”

✨ Your standards rise naturally
Not from ego — from clarity and self-respect.

✨ You make decisions from alignment, not fear of being alone
Which changes everything.

✨ Loneliness loses its power over you
You can feel it without scrambling to escape it through the wrong connection.

✨ You keep more of your energy
No more overthinking, analysing, waiting, or emotionally managing someone else.

✨ Your life expands
Friendships, creativity, career, health, joy — all the things that get sidelined when romance is the main focus.

✨ You stop shape-shifting
Less self-editing, less performing, less “who do I need to be for this to work?”

✨ You trust yourself more
Because you’re no longer overriding your intuition to keep someone.

✨ You feel whole now — not “when”
Life isn’t on hold until love arrives.

✨ The relationships you do choose are healthier
Because they’re additions, not emotional life support.

✨ Rejection stings less
It’s information, not a verdict on your worth.

✨ You experience more peace
And you become very protective of it.

✨ You become more attractive in the healthiest way
Grounded, self-led, not grasping — the energy shift is real.

It’s not about caring less.
It’s about anchoring your centre of gravity inside yourself, not in someone else.

Join Victoria an integrative therapist,a specialisist in self confidence, recovery and rebuilding the self following relationship breakdown and abuse.

This Pre Valentines event will 'flip the switch' on solo chapters of your life and celebrate the potential for you to invest your time, money and energy towards YOU!