Designing Desire: Mastering Scene Creation in Kink and BDSM

Designing Desire: Mastering Scene Creation in Kink and BDSM

Tuesday 24th June, 7:30 PM (BST) · Live on Zoom · Recording available for 30 days

Ever wanted to create a kinky scene that feels electric — but found yourself stuck on where to start, what to include, or how to keep it safe?
This 90-minute webinar is your invitation to design powerful, creative, and conscious scenes that leave everyone buzzing.

Whether you're a Dom wanting to lead with confidence, a switch exploring creative control, or a sub looking to co-create exciting experiences — you’ll leave this session feeling informed, inspired, and in charge.

What We’ll Cover

• 🔐 Safety & negotiation: Vetting, consent, risk assessment, safety procedures
• 🧠 Structure vs. response: how to design flexible yet immersive scenes
• 🧰 Props, tools, and locations: scenes with lots (or very little) equipment
• 🧙 Archetypes & roles: explore the personas you play with
• 🎭 Tasks & games: tools to build tension, control, and emotional impact
• 💬 Communication in and out of play
• ✍️ Scene blueprints: how to plan with clarity, or play with fluidity
• 🎨 Creative tools: sensory input, scripting desire, surprise elements
• ⚖️ Aftercare, Dom/sub drop and how to support recovery

Bettersx webinars are praised for creating educational resources that go beyond the usual. The combination of authentic tutors with real life experience and external resources you will learn an approach that is holistic and adaptable to your unique learning needs. In addition to the webinar itself attendees will recieve:

• 30 Day reply recording of the Webinar
• Slides and resources used throughout
• Scene creation outline resource
• Negotiation and Kink Exploration Form
• Risk assessment Form
• Reflection and feedback activity
• What do you want to feel? Emotionally led scene exploration
• My Personalised Spotify Feelings Playlists
• What Archetype are you quiz
• Further Learning Recomendations

Meaning you recieve over £100 of Content for the price of the webinar!

About Your Facilitators: Alice Lovegood (she/her) is a conscious kink practitioner, content creator and the UK’s most-followed sex educator. With over a decade in health and social care and a deep grounding in trauma-informed practice, Alice is known for blending education with empathy, depth with play, and kink with care. She's married, polyamorous, neuro-divergent, queer, kinky and a mum of three creating accessible, engaging and evidence based resources to support people in living authentic, pleasurable lives. Mr Lovegood, Alice's husband, pro Dom and concious kink practitioner often co-hosts. Their workshops sell out fast — for good reason.

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