Aksaa invites you to a workshop on:

Positive Parenting Course

Based on the Quran and Hadith

This programme is for Brothers and Sisters

• Do you need help managing your child’s behaviour?
• Do you need the skills to help your children be resilient and positive?
• Are you concerned about their Islamic upbringing in the current climate?

Then this course is for you!

The Prophet pbuh said: "Upon death, man's deeds will stop except for three deeds, namely: a continuous charitable fund, knowledge left for people to benefit from; and a pious righteous and God-fearing child who continuously prays to Allah, for the soul of his parents." (Muslim)

Venue: MUSLIMAAT Educational institution,

Don Valley House, 4th Floor, Savile Street East, Sheffield S4 7UQ

Date: Tuesday 13 May 2025 Time: 6.30 pm to 8.30 pm

Delivered by Br Kaushar Tai, Director, Aksaa – Positive Coach & Training Consultant

This course is FREE Lunch and refreshments will be provided

Learning Outcomes:

• Gain confidence in dealing with your child Islamically.

• Learn to use positive rather than negative reinforcement techniques.

• Learn that children learn in different ways.

• Look at your strengths and weaknesses.

• Learn about the different methods applied to behaviour management.

• Learn about effective teaching methods.

• How to create love between you and your child

To register your place, please log on to: https://pc130525.eventbrite.co.uk

For further information please contact: Kaushar Tai on 0782 3811914

Aksaa is registered and accredited learning Centre for CPD – Continuous Professional Development An accredited CPD certificate will be issued after the course

Feedback from Previous Islamic Parenting Skills Courses

Assalamalekum,

I am writing this email to let you know that how great your course was today about "parenting skills". I thoroughly enjoyed every bit of it! It's such an eye opener for me, my parenting behaviour will be totally changed from now on as I've learned many different things about managing a child. I'm single mother with no support this course has given me boost in handling my child's matters/needs. Mr Kaushar has very good approach towards all students, power of speaking and positive attitude.

I'm really thankful to you for providing us wide knowledge and sharing your beautiful ideas with us, the most important thing which I like the best was: "praise your child secretly while they can hear you, it'll boost them to a positive attitude” JazakAllah kher! Looking forward to come in your next course,Sincerely, Sana Babar

Dear Kaushar

Many thanks indeed for your email and the attachments, very much appreciated. I found the day to by very interesting, thought provocative and stimulating. We live in an ever so much changing world and unless we become very focused and use our brain and mind-set as our greatest alley then our life will be driven by others. Throughout the course (day) I have learnt quite a few tips on how to become more focused, and broad minded at the same time. I will certainly recommend the course to those who are seriously interested on how to consolidate their parental skills. Kind regards

Sadek Jallul

Salam Brother

I have to say that your course was brilliant and really had taught me a lot and I do wish that I would have known about it when my kids were smaller or as I was about to start a family.Most of the things that you talk about children I probably have known as I am a paediatrician and therefore work with children most time but it was fascinating to know about it in Islamic perspective. I would recommend it to my friends and I am quite happy to organise one if I get enough numbers.

Wasallam Shariza

Asalamu alaikum

I found the parenting course refreshing and by the end I was glad I came. Sometimes there is a worry that by the end of certain courses you feel the day has been a waste of time. That was definitely not the case with Kaushar’s course. The knowledge within was simple and if you think about it, you already know what he’s saying, but therein applies the hadeeth of this deen being naseeha ! Some good principles which i took home to try and live by in my home. Waslamu alaikum

Amjad

As’salamu^alaykum

Baarak Allaahu Feeki, I have benefited immensely from the Parenting course and you are an excellent facilitator. All the answers are in the Quran and the Sunnah and this was incorporated and portrayed through the group activities and the PowerPoint presentation.

I encourage you to put effort into coming to these courses as you will benefit at home and work, it’s the good deeds that will help a person in the grave and on the day of judgement and reviewing and acquiring the religious knowledge holds a very big reward, the one who thinks about his grave often will work hard in this life to prepare for it.

The structure of the course is interactive and Kauser put the group at ease with icebreakers and boundaries. Found the peer assessment valuable as it helped identify and learn from their skills as parents and to evaluate the best route to parenting. Also the self-assessment was beneficial activity as we are very critical of others and rarely evaluate ourselves. The video was really a shocking eye opener as to how much children copy their parent’s characteristics.

I will definitely be implementing what I have learnt, working as a team and negotiating with my son and becoming his best friend. It was fabulous how you formed a parent support group that can contact, especially when the going gets tough. Kind regards Shahda Mahmood

Assalamu alaikum, Alhamdulillah, after attending your course I came out not only a better parent but a better person. I have a 7 year old son with learning disability. Going through your one day course finally put my mind into accepting that our child is such a SPECIAL blessing from Allah SWT. From that Sunday onwards any time I look at him and feel sad, I would always remember that he would not be questioned or held accountable for what he has done. I have resolved to be more patient with him and alhamdulillah my two children have been getting more hugs and kisses. Looking forward to attending your course on the ideal husband and the ideal wife. Jazakhallah khayr

Jamila Makarfi Manchester

Assalaamu alaikum.

Jazakallah for putting together a very useful course. This was not a course from which we walked away having acquired just knowledge but one that has helped put the upbringing of our children in perspective and highlighted changes that we need to make as parents if we want our children to change for the better.

Alhamdulillah my husband and I have changed our approach towards the kids. Since Saturday we have treated them with respect and tried harder to have patience with them and the results are already showing in them. May Allah Swt reward you for all your efforts. Najma butt

I am a mother of 3 children and a teacher by profession. The course was a great learning experience for me that I intend to use what I have learnt to further enhance my relationship with my children and inshaAllah my grandchildren soon. Bilkisu Hassan

Salam brother,

"I found the course exceptionally useful. It is a course that every muslim person should attend so that they can learn to relate to any child according to the quran & sunnah". Wsalam Dr Saima Tufail

Brother Kaushar

Please accept my apologies for the late reply. Allhumdulillah I really enjoyed the Islamic Parenting Skills course very much, It was very informative in general way but also from a Islamic point of view. I learnt how to deal with children in a more effective way Inshallah, understood the 7,7,7, rule and how I could apply it. Although my children are in the 14-21 age range I still benefited from this course a lot. I am looking forward to the Islamic Personal Development Course and am hoping to bring my children along to the course too Inshallah.

May Allah SWT accept your good work and may He give you more tawfeek to continue this work and benifit other people. Jazakallah Khair Sister Razia.

Dear brother Kausher,

I was one of the many people who attended your Parenting skills course on the 7th of October at the Muslim Heritage centre. I would like to thank you very much for coming and presenting this excellent course. I found it to be very informative and thoroughly enjoyed it. My children have now grown up and I wish that I had had access to something like this when they were younger. However, I am hoping to implement the skills I learnt on my 5 grandchildren inshAllah.

I am looking forward to attending the Personal development course that you are going to run in November. Please do send me the details. JazakAllah Khair! Ghazala Aziz.

Dear Kaushar Assalmualikum

Apologies for the delay in responding (you can pick on the doctors again!!). May Allah reward you for your efforts and hard work in the noble work you are doing.

I found the course very useful. Not only was I struck by the examples of the prophet in parenting but also by our own ignorance of the best example we have in our prophet. The key lesson and message from the course for me was to listen, understand and reflect and adapt the prophet’s way of dealing when faced with parenting problems. Dr Eliyaz

Salaam Brother,

'Kaushar delivered an exceptional course which really opened my eyes to how parenting should REALLY be done. I learnt a ton of useful and practical ways to deal with my children and they seem to be working - especially the younger one! An excellent course which comes highly recommended.'

Arfa Saira Iqbal, Manchester

Salams

I found the course very beneficial. Before coming to the course, I was having problems with my son. Now I have hope of resolving things, by applying what I have learnt. The 7/7/7 stages of development I have not heard before. May Allah SWT reward the Trainer.

Ayan Siad - Mother

I learnt the power of positive reinforcement and how withdrawing it can be used as an alternative to negative reinforcement. I found the course extremely positive and beneficial Mash Allah.

Umm Ibrahim

Very good course needs to be longer. I will start introducing the Sunnah’s learnt on the course and reduce shouting. I didn’t want the session to end. Reem El-Amir - Housewife

I found lots of useful information relevant to parenting. I liked the sharing of experiences with other parents. I will be more patient, be more friendlier and less sterner with my children.

Kauthar was an excellent speaker and knowledgeable about parenting. He used experiences, hadith and theory. Sitara Kabir – work for charity

Alhamdullilah the course was very enlightening. I found it most useful about how to apply the teachings of Prophet (saw) and use Islamic teachings when dealing with any problems with children.

MashaAllah brother Kauthar is a good teacher, really enjoyed the session. Very humorous.

Shahelen Begaum – Admin/Receptionist

I enjoyed the course and beneficial points shared by Kauthar and other brothers and sisters. I found it most useful and the answers to certain questions i.e. How to deal with a child who seek too much attention. From now on I will not promise things to my children but rather surprise them. Good presentation style. Speaks clearly, well presented. Abdulkareem Al-Kishany – student