Pussy Portal- A Dark Goddess Samhain Ritual

For women, our most magical and intuitive portal—our pussy—has for centuries been shamed, silenced, and hidden along with our menstrual cycles.

This disconnection from our womb space and our blood has led to deeper disconnection: from our pleasure, our voice, our inner knowing, our emotions and ultimately, from the truth of who we are—a Creatrix. A powerful force of life and limitless creation.

Creation is not only about birthing human life. It’s about birthing ideas, relationships, businesses, art, income streams, and more. It's our expansive creativity from our pure essence and at its core, it's about cultivating and expressing our truest, fullest self in the world. Our menstrual cycle is our guide back to this way of living.But to fully access that power, we must first release—so that we may reclaim.

Pussy Portal is a sacred space for women to gather, to remember, to return to the divine portal within. A ceremonial, grounded, heart-led event of reconnection, reverence, and radical self-acceptance.

Rooted in global ancestral traditions, this practice—commonly known as yoni steaming—uses herbal-infused steam to cleanse, soften, and open the energetic pathways to the womb. The term "Pussy Purge" has been consciously adapted to honour the essence of the practice while respecting its diverse cultural origins and avoiding appropriation and reclaiming language that has been used to oppress.

As we reclaim more parts of ourselves, the Pussy Portal also weaves in self-love practices that invite us to step ever closer to wholeness—nurturing body, heart, and spirit alike.

This Samhain (Halloween) we step into the realm of the Dark Goddess. Together, we will traverse deeper into the mysteries then before to reclaim the stunning art of blood magick. Using our menstrual blood* we will paint and create art to honour its power and magick. Menstrual blood literally gave and sustained life to ALL humans on this earth. There is no other power and magick like it which is why it is to be revered.

What is a Yoni Steam?

A yoni steam—also known as vaginal steaming is an ancient practice used by women for centuries as a form of womb and pelvic care. It involves sitting or kneeling over a bowl of warm, steaming water infused with medicinal herbs that lovingly nourish, cleanse, and reconnect you to your womb space.

During a yoni steam, the steam rises and gently suffuses the vulva and vaginal opening, carrying with it the healing properties of herbs such as mugwort, rose, lavender, calendula, or basil. These herbs are often selected for their abilities to soothe, purify, and energetically support the womb.

But a yoni steam is far more than a physical cleanse.It is a sacred ritual of slowing down. A time to soften, listen, and release.It can support emotional clearing, reconnection to your feminine centre, and the opening of space—both physically and energetically—for your intuition, creativity, and pleasure to flow.

Pussy Purge is a sacred ceremony of release, remembrance, and reclamation.A ritual space to return to yourself—to sit with the truth of who you are, honour your body’s wisdom, and let go of what no longer aligns, so you can rise rooted, radiant, and whole.

It is a deep act of reverence for the pussy—this wise, intuitive, and creative centre of your being. Through this ritual, we create space to gently clear energetic blocks and reconnect to the wellspring of our pleasure, power, and purpose.

We will be supported by Mama Cacao, holding her in ceremony as a heart-opening plant spirit to help us drop deeper into connection—with ourselves, our bodies, and our wildness. Her presence will guide us in softening our defences and awakening our sensual and intuitive nature.

Shamanic drumming will also be used to assist our journey into the feminine realm.

Blood Magick

In this context, 'magick' is another ay of saying 'manifestation' or tool to manifest.

Blood magick is an ancient and powerful magick. Just like all things it can be used to good and bad, it all depends on your intention. As with all Divine Darkness teachings/experiences, this magick will be held in the highest respect and ONLY for good intentions for the highest, best good of the user.

*To prepare, collect your menstrual blood in a container and put it in the freezer. If you are not bleeding/no longer bleeding or aren't yet comfortable with the idea of painting with your blood a plant based or paint alternative will be provided.

What to Expect

• 3:00 PM — Doors open
• 3:15 PM — Doors close (please be on time)
• 3:15 PM — Opening circle + cacao ceremony
• 3:45 PM — Dark Goddess embodiment practice
• 4:00 PM — Pussy Gazing
• 4:40 PM — Group Pussy Purge (steaming done individually in a shared space) + journaling
• 5:30 PM — Blood painting
• 6:15 PM — Closing circle
• 6:30 PM — Completion

*times may vary slightly

What to Bring

• Water bottle to stay hydrated (warming tea will be provided)
• A bowl for the steam (large enough to kneel over; herbs provided)
• A hand-held mirror
• Journal & pen
• Oil and herbs will be provided however feel free to bring your own if you have specific preferences
• An item for the alter (optional)
• Your own previously collected menstrual blood (alternative will be provided for anyone not wishing to do this)

What to Wear

Wear whatever makes you feel most comfortable, powerful, and sacred.You’re welcome to arrive in your softest clothing or fully adorned in your inner Dark Goddess / Godx/ Priestess /Monarch regalia. Anything that supports your sense of beauty and sovereignty is welcome and highly encouraged (think crowns, tiaras, bold necklaces/jewellery, flowing gowns).

You can change at the venue. It is a no shoe venue.Please wear something that allows for ease during the steam.Blankets will be provided for additional warmth or coverage and warm, snuggly socks can be useful (even with tiara's and flowing gowns!)

Considerations

Yoni steaming during your bleed is not recommended in some traditions while some people find their bleed time to be the perfect time to steam. If you’ll be menstruating, please tune into your body and decide what feels right for you. Alternatives may be available upon request.

Certain herbs (like mugwart) are not recommended if you're pregnant

Who Is This For?

This gathering is open to cis women and all AFAB individuals who resonate with womb-based healing and connection.

Investment

Choose the tier that reflects your current financial situation

• Tier 1: £15
• Tier 2: £20
• Tier 3: £25(+£1ish booking fee)

No pressure. No judgment. Just presence and choice.

No refunds unless event is cancelled by the organizer.

Location

Spaces are limited to 13 women.Location details will be shared 24 hours before the event with ticket holders.(Nearest station: Ladbrook Grove – 10 min walk)

It’s time to shed. To release. To return to yourself.Join us for Pussy Portal—a potent ritual of remembrance, reclamation, and rising.

About your host

Sarah Jayne/Mistress Jayne is a Shamanic Sex Witch who brings together the worlds of sacred sexuality & conscious kink to provide spaces for healing sexual shame, reclaiming our power & coming together in sacred union.Through understanding the power of their menstrual cycle & reconnecting to their pussys’, Sarah Jayne/Mistress Jayne guides women back to themselves so they can leave the good girl behind & step into their wild woman!

Mistress Jayne creates experiences for people who want to explore BDSM & surrender to the delights of sadistic sensuality, submission & worship. To experience their hidden desires in a world that demands them to always be in charge & in control or to be “nice”, “good”, “quiet”.Insta @meet_missjayne