Shame: Questions and Answers - Juliet Grayson and William Ayot

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Shame: Questions and Answers workshop with Juliet Grayson and William Ayot

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Juliet Grayson and William Ayot will create an open forum where people can bring all their thoughts, comments and questons about shame.

William and Juliet have offered a series of talks on shame. These have covered:

  • The Hidden Face of Shame - Includes: Shame is everywhere, but many people don't realise this
  • The Engines of Shame - Includes: What causes shame, and what shame creates (perfectionism, depression, eating disorders, rage, addictions, social anxiety, narcissism, co-dependence)
  • Shame, Truama and Abuse - Includes: The freeze response, and unlimited openness caused by abuse.
  • Shame and Relationships - Includes: The rules of a dysfunctional family.
  • Shame and Betrayal - Includes: Revenge, forgiveness, healthy guilt.
  • Treating Shame, Tools and Techniques - Includes: The 5 point model for working with shame.

Recordings of all these talks are available on jandw.thinkific.com

This 2-hour workshop will be recorded and you can use the ticket function to pre-purchase the recording before the event. This will be useful for colleagues who are not able to attend the event live and also for those who attend the event live and want to watch again.

This workshop will be hosted on the Zoom meeting platform where we will use our camera and microphones to interact with each other as a group.

To support practitioners in this time of extraordinary circumstances we are offering access to this group for a self-select fee.

The self-select fee is a radical inclusion policy to open learning for all colleagues. The guide price for this event is £20.00, however, we appreciate that income varies greatly in different locations and circumstances. Please contribute what you can to help us maintain inclusive professional training.


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Juliet Grayson

I'm a psychosexual psychotherapist, coach, teacher, and have been working as a psychotherapist since 1991. I specialise in working with couples and sexual problems. I also work with people who are facing a life-limiting diagnosis. I am UKCP registered, NLPtCA accredited, COSRT accredited, and PBSP accredited as a psychotherapist. I am recognised by UKCP as a NLPtCA supervisor and COSRT supervisor. I am also an accredited PBSP supervisor and one of the first PBSP accredited trainers in the UK. I have a private practice in South Wales.

I am the author of Landscapes of the Heart: The Working World of a Sex and Relationship Therapist - over half of which is about PBSP therapy.

One thing I offer is Couples Intensive therapy sessions. A couple who are struggling come for 3 1/2 hours of therapy one afternoon, stay locally, and then we do another 3 1/2 hours of therapy the next morning. This is really helpful for moving through a particular issue, or moment of crisis. Online I offer these 7 hour sessions over 3 days.

After many years of exploring different types of therapeutic systems, in 2001, I discovered the Pesso Boyden System of Psychotherapy (PBSP). I am passionate about this because it is so effective, enabling clients not just to learn to cope with their issues, but to be able to (in many cases) fundamentally shift and change them, so that they see the world differently. As a client said to me, "It's like speed-dialling the unconscious." As yet, PBSP is not well known in the UK, and I want to change that. I have some groups that meet four times a year. These meet in London, Bristol, and South Wales. I also run two residential workshops every year in Somerset, and 2-day workshops in Oxfordshire and supervision days that are open to all, Recently I have been offering online structures via Zoom.

I work with the general public, and often work with other psychotherapists and counsellors who want help. Hence, I have been called "The Therapist's Therapist!"

We (Sally Potter, Sandy Cotter, and I are the three Accredited Trainers of PBSP in the UK) offer training courses for qualified therapists who want to learn PSBP. Therapists who are interested in adding Pesso Boyden to their repertoire can join a one-year or three-year training starting in 2021. Visit Pesso Boyden Training UK for details www.pessoboydentraininguk.com

I was the co-founder of StopSO (Specialist Treatment Organisation for Perpetrators and Survivors of Sexual Offences). StopSO has a UK wide network of psychotherapists and counsellors who offer therapy in the community for those at risk of sexual offending or re-offending. The aim of StopSO is to help potential perpetrators in order to stop new victims of sexual abuse from being created. This is a cost effective way of protecting society. Prevent rather than respond. I was chair from 2011-2019.

I designed and run (alongside a team) a twelve day programme, in six modules each of two days. This teaches therapists, counsellors, psychologists, coaches, and health professionals how to work with relationship issues and sexual problems. This course is approved by COSRT for CPD.

Website | https://therapyandcounselling.co.uk/ | http://landscapesoftheheart.co.uk/ | http://sexuallyinappropriatebehaviour.org/

Facebook | Juliet Grayson

Twitter | HelpingYouBeYou | CounsellorsCPD

Books for Sale | http://landscapesoftheheart.co.uk/buy-a-book/


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William Ayot

William Ayot is an award-winning poet, author, teacher and ritualist. Over three decades, he has organized, hosted, facilitated and led, men’s and mixed personal development events and rites of passage, working in rehab, correctional, personal development and organizational contexts. He uses poetry and the arts to teach leadership in boardrooms and business schools around the world, currently teaching on the Advanced Management Programme at INSEAD. William also designs and leads bespoke rituals for individuals and groups in his purpose-built ritual garden in Monmouthshire, Wales. Writing includes the play, Bengal Lancer, three collections of poetry, and a prose book on ritual. He is currently writing a book for and about men in a time of epochal change.

William leads personal rituals for people, and is available for one-to-one coaching online.

Website | www.williamayot.com

Juliet and William are starting an online workshop in September - A MATTER OF LIFE AND DEATH: THE QUEST FOR MATURITY, SOUL & RESILIENCE IN UNCERTAIN TIMES: An Initiatory Programme for Men and Women. This will be 8 sessions fortnightly, on a Saturday afternoon, (that are recorded in case you miss one), and group sessions as well.

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