The Identity Edge: Redefining Yourself in Perimenopause & Beyond

Reconnect with who you are now so you can lead, work, and live from a place that actually reflects her.

In this 2-hour in-person workshop, we’ll get under the surface of what’s been quietly shifting in this chapter of your life, not to fix it, but to meet it.
You’ll leave with real tools, clear language, and a steadier sense of self that can hold what you’re building next.

Not a pep talk, but a recalibration grounded in action, backed by tools, and powered by a room of women who are still holding a lot but no longer willing to do it in ways that cost them.

This is for the woman in business who’s still performing, still delivering but quietly wondering how much longer it’s meant to feel like this.

This is the space to pause without unravelling.
To move without pretending.
And to meet the version of you that’s already here, just under the noise.

What We’ll Cover

• What No One Talks About
  The mindset and identity shifts that come with this phase of life and shape everything about how you lead, decide, and move.
• The 3 Misbeliefs Stealing Your Edge
  The ones that quietly convince you to push through, shrink back, or stay stuck in rhythms that don’t fit anymore and what actually gets to support your clarity, energy and results instead.
• Stepping Into Version 2.0 of You
  Meet the bolder, steadier, more honest version of you who’s not here to cope, but here to thrive.
• Integrating This Identity Into the Everyday
  You’ll learn the language, practices, and internal structure to lead from who you are now, with a foundation strong enough to build 2026 on.

Why now?

November is the perfect time to recalibrate.

Before the year turns, you get to decide not just what you’ll do in 2026, but who you’ll be while you do it.

Because without naming where you are now, it’s easy to keep building from a version of you that doesn’t quite fit anymore.

This workshop gives you the clarity, the tools, and the community to:

⚡️Feel steady in yourself.

⚡️Show up in your business without burning out.

⚡️Lead at work and at home from a place of confidence, not overcompensation.

What Makes This Different

Most coaches with either support you with business strategy or mindset. Here, with me, you get both, plus practical nervous-system tools that that make any of it sustainable.

You won’t just think differently. You’ll move differently. With me, you don’t collapse into your business. We work with what lives between the inner shifts you’re moving through and the real-world decisions, responsibilities, and rhythms they show up in.

We map your identity, your energy, and your capacity not as separate silos, but as a living system. And we do it in a way that makes your clarity actionable, not just insightful.

You’ll get real tools, the kind that work when your calendar’s full, your energy’s off, and you still want to show up without overriding yourself.

And you won’t be doing it in isolation.
You’ll be in a room with other ambitious women quietly going through the same questions, the kind of space where “finally, someone said it” is a common response!

The Details

📅 Tuesday 25th November

🕰️ 10am-12pm

📍Location: The Residence Coworking, Bishops Stortford

🎟️ Price: £39 ( delicious treats and coffee/tea included!)

You can keep telling yourself it’s just a rough patch.
That things will calm down soon.
That you’ll feel more like yourself once you catch up.

But deep down, you know you’ve outgrown the way you’ve been holding it all.
And it’s time to move differently.

That starts by meeting yourself exactly where you are and building from there, not from who you used to be.

It starts by booking your place in this workshop 😉

I’ll see you there!

About Your Host

I’m Ilaria, a high-performance coach who’s passionate about helping female founders like you create meaningful growth without sacrificing their sanity.

And also… I’m a woman living through this exact shift.

I created The Identity Edge because I know what it’s like to be the woman who gets it done, calendar full, goals mapped, showing up like she always has, while quietly wondering...
‘How much longer can I hold it like this without something giving way?’

I’ve felt it- I still do at times!

And nearly every woman I work with brings her own version of it...

This workshop is my answer to that.
And if part of you is asking too, this space is for you.