The Self Love Soirée - End of Year Edition
Forget the timelines & milestones love, let's celebrate who we are & where we’re at! 3 Course Brunch, Cocktails, DJ & Burlesque Show!
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Mistress of Mayfair
48-49 Saint James's Street London SW1A 1JT United KingdomRefund Policy
About this event
After the overwhelming success of our last event The Self Love Soirée - End of Year Edition, we’re back - this time to close out the year in true Her Thirties style!
This isn’t about rushing to meet expectations or ticking off milestones before the year ends. It’s about celebrating exactly where we are, without pressure, without comparison - just gratitude for the journey so far.
Join us Abbey, Bianca and the Her Thirties team at Mayfair’s most exclusive venues for another truly incredible, immersive, and unforgettable experience:
A glamorous 3-course brunch, signature cocktails/mock-tails, live immersive dance performances, 2 panels of 8 influential women, a female DJ, luxurious goodie bags, and brand activation experiences throughout.
Whether you come solo (we love that!) or with your girls, we’ve designed this to be a space where you can simply show up, indulge, and let the day unfold.
And yes, it’s a daytime affair (as usual) because in our 30's, we know the joy of a perfect day out that still leaves time for our evening rituals of magnesium and skincare.
This is your chance to connect, reflect, and celebrate alongside 150 like-minded women who just get it.
🌹 Event Schedule | Sunday, 14th December 2025
♥️ 1–2pm: The VIP Private Reception
♥️ 2–4pm: The 3 Course Brunch Experience
♥️ 4–6pm: The Panelist Sessions
♥️ 6-7pm: DJ, Dancing, mingling
🌹 3 Ticket Options:
♥️The VIP Full Day Experience | 1–7pm | £155
The VIP all-access ticket. Begin with an intimate reception, enjoy prime seating, and take home a luxurious VIP goodie bag.
This ticket includes:
• Private pre-brunch one hour reception.
• Q&A with Abbey & Bianca, show around the venue & photo opportunities.
• A VIP-Exclusive Toast. Before the main event starts, together with Bianca & Abbey we will do an, intimate toast just for VIPs setting the tone for the day.
• VIP seating for the brunch and Panelist Sessions.
• Priority Q&A - your questions for the panelists will be prioritised.
• Welcome Drink
• 3-course brunch
• Immersive dance show performances between your brunch courses.
• 2 x Panelist Sessions with live Q&A
• Luxe VIP goodie bag with premium items
• Immersive activations and photo opportunities throughout the venue
• Post-Event Digital Gift – A QR code leading to an exclusive digital album, playlist, post-event reflection prompt.
• Live Female DJ
• Networking and mingling with 150 like-minded women
🥂 The Brunch Experience | 2–7pm | £125
The centrepiece of the day: a luxe brunch, live immersive dance show performances, engaging panel, and unforgettable connections.
This ticket includes:
• Welcome Drink
• 3-course brunch
• Goodie bag
• Immersive dance show performances
• 2 x Panelist Session with live Q&A
• Immersive activations and photo opportunities throughout the venue
• Post-Event Digital Gift – A QR code leading to an exclusive digital album, playlist, post-event reflection prompt.
• Live Female DJ
• Networking and mingling with 150 like-minded women
🍸 The Afternoon Soirée | 4–7pm | £55
Join us for the heart of the event - the panelist sessions and an unforgettable close to the year.
This ticket includes:
• Welcome drink
• 2 x Panelist Sessions
• Immersive activations and photo opportunities throughout the venue
• Post-Event Digital Gift – A QR code leading to an exclusive digital album, playlist, post-event reflection prompt.
• Live Female DJ
• Networking and mingling with 100 like-minded women
🌹 Additional Info:
Dress Code? Please wear our Her Thirties colours - Red, Black, Burgundy.
Who Can Attend? While we’re Her Thirties, this event is for anyone who resonates with us - whether you’re in your 20s, 30s, 40s, or beyond.
Book your ticket, step into a day designed for us, and let’s celebrate exactly where we are.
Take a look below at some of the amazing memories we created at our last Mistress Self Love Soirée and what our guests thought of the experience.