The Wells Tribe (Men's Circle)

!!! This is an interest call. If 4+ men commit or are interested !!!

!!! I will book a venue in central Tunbridge Wells !!!

!!! Please contact me if other dates work better - zero-seven-946 727 254 - Sam !!!

What is it?A space for men to gather, speak, and be witnessed without judgement or fixing. We sit in circle. The chair opens with an invocation and agreement of respect. A topic is introduced. Each man may speak, or sit in silent presence. No interruptions. No advice. Just truth.

Once each has spoken, the circle opens for deeper group dialogue.

Why?Men thrive in brotherhood. Without it, we isolate, numb, or perform. This is an invitation to stop performing. Show up. Lead and be led.

Cost: £5 - to transfer or bring cash at the door, just covers the booking space only.

Meeting Format

• Circle shares (~60 min)
• Format: We will sit a circle, and the chair will read a pre-amble - which includes our agreement to one another. The topic is introduced and we each speak to it and what it means for them. After the topic has been introduced, the floor is opened and we converse as a group.
• Afterworks I will book a social either pub/food which is entirely optional

Preparation

• Not required - but check out suggested reading/listening to prime your inner work
• Show up prepared to feel, not to fix

Suggested Reading

• Backbone – David Wagner
• King, Warrior, Magician, Lover – Robert Moore
• No More Mr. Nice Guy – Robert Glover
• Man’s Search for Meaning – Viktor Frankl

Suggested Podcasts

• ManTalks – Connor Beaton
• Modern Wisdom – Chris Williamson
• Bridging Connection – Bryan Reeves
• Finding Mastery – Dr. Michael Gervais

Example Topics

• Living with Purpose – Are you living with a clear sense of purpose? If not, what’s in the way?
• Masculine & Feminine Energy – How do these energies show up in your life? Are you in balance or stuck in one?
• Being a Conscious Man in Relationships – How do you show up for your partner (or how did you in past relationships)? Are you leading with depth and presence?
• The Power of Integrity – Where in your life are you out of integrity? What would it mean to fully align with your values?
• Facing Fear & Resistance – What fears hold you back? How do you deal with discomfort and challenge?
• Brotherhood & Accountability – Where do you struggle to be vulnerable with other men? How do you want to be supported and challenged?
• Your Relationship with Strength & Vulnerability – Do you equate masculinity with strength alone? How do you embrace both power and softness?
• Sex, Desire & Deep Connection – What is your relationship with sexual energy? Are you using it consciously or unconsciously?
• Death, Legacy & Living Fully – If you died tomorrow, what would be unfinished? How do you want to be remembered?"