TKL Speed Dating - Dom M / sub f - 26th July

Welcome! 

We're here to help anyone who likes to explore kink and wants to find a genuine connection - whether it be for friendship, a long lasting lifestyle dynamic, a partner to wreck havoc at play parties or someone lovely to just curl up on the sofa and enjoy films with. Or ... dare we suggest.... why not all of them? 

This friendly event is specifically for ladies who prefer - or think they would prefer - their Gentlemen to take the lead, and for Gentlemen who are interested in such ladies. 

We've sold out more often than not, so we'd suggest you don't wait if you're interested! 

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Format

Ladies, you will keep the same seat throughout the evening and will have around 5 minutes to get to know each  Gent before they move onto the next lovely lady.

There will be two short breaks during the evening so that you can refresh drinks and rest your vocal chords.  

After the event the space is ours to carry on socialising - there will be more people to meet, plus a chance to delve a little deeper into all the wonderful new connections you've started during your speed dates.

The venue is a gorgeous private space and if you're peckish, the pub does excellent food. 

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PLEASE NOTE! 

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Please (please!) arrive in good time to check in and grab a drink before the dating starts at 7.30pm. The nearer 7.00pm, the better :) If you arrive after we have started, we will get you seated as soon as we can, but we can't guarantee that you will have a chance to speak to all of the other attendees.

For the comfort and ease of all, we have one strict rule: you must never request anyone's contact details, however indirectly. If you would like to stay in contact, offer your details to them.

If you reach out to people you've not met because you've seen them interact with us online you're risking the full force of our wrath (and we do have the wrath). We've not had this silliness to date and we would like to keep it that way. It's not classy, it's not wanted and it sure as sugarlumps doesn't work.

Waiting lists are available via Eventbrite if you didn't manage to get a ticket this time, and we will be running it again! :)

We are always on the lookout for accessible venues, but sadly, this is not one. There's a flight of stairs to get to the speed dating and no lift. If you would like to recommend a venue, please drop us line.

COVID safety note!

For the moment, for our face to face events we will require:

- you to be vaccinated (or have proof of medical exemption) AND

- have evidence of a negative COVID test from the day of the event AND

- for you to be symptom free (this should be a no-brainer!).

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FAQs

What should I wear?

Most of our events are in vanilla venues like pubs, so whatever you would usually wear to a pub will be fine :) If an event isn't vanilla we'll be sure to say.

For speed dating, some people choose to come smart, some smart casual, and some straight from the gym. We'd encourage you to  put your best foot forwards and then come however you feel comfortable.  

Do I have to bring my printed ticket to the event?

No need - we just need the name you gave us :) You can give us any name you like, so long as it fits in the text box! 

Do you have a matching service?

We don't have one (yet :) ) .... but watch this space!

To make things relaxed and comfortable for everyone, we ask that you give your details to people you're interested in; no asking for details, however awesome they are.

I met a lovely person but I didn't take their details! Can you help?

You're welcome to post publicly on FL, and we'll happily bump your post, but to protect our guests we won't share any details (and we don't save anything outside our ticketing sites, in any event). 

If you like someone, we suggest giving them your details on the evening and crossing your fingers :) 

Something has gone wrong in Eventbrite!

Much as we'd love to help, we don't know anything about the inner workings of Eventbrite.

They have a help centre here.

I can't come, what should I do?

Do come! The other guests are looking forwards to meeting you!

If you really can't make it (and we know that happens) then you can request a refund via Eventbrite right up to a week before the event.

After that, we'd really appreciate it if you could tell us: we usually have a waiting list of people we can try to reach out to. Not only does that help us keep an even number of attendees, it gives someone else a chance to come. Not turning up also makes us a little sad. We wanted to meet you too...

Would you run an xyz event?

Maybe! Drop us a message and if we think we can do it justice, we might run it!

We really do want guests to have a great time, and meet wonderful people - that's why we do this :)