Understanding Demand Avoidance Behaviours in Children

Many children struggle with “everyday demands” like homework, self-care, or even play. These behaviours are often misread as defiance, when in reality they reflect stress, anxiety, and a deep need for autonomy.

In this presentation, we’ll explore:

• What demand avoidance looks like in everyday life
• Why children experience it as a can’t rather than a won’t
• The brain science behind avoidance responses
• Practical, neuro-affirming parenting strategies to reduce power struggles and build trust

This talk will give you fresh insights, compassionate tools, and confidence to support your child in ways that honour their needs and strengthen your relationship. There will be plenty of time for Q and A so come armed with your questions and queries