With beautiful women attending from all over, the last Unseen Rogue was a huge success and the vibe was on point! Unseen Rogue is a play party child of The Unseen Lounge, East Midland’s premier swing social events. We are proud to bring you:

- Women only play and social space

- Open play rooms to explore

- Private play rooms to enjoy

- Sensual kink displays

- Welcome drink on arrival

- Fully licensed bar

- Fully equipped venue

- All female staff and stewards

Feel the magic and live your fairytale on this evening of mystery and wonder. Have you ever wanted to be a barefoot forest nymph or a dark elf, maybe embody your favourite princess? Join our journey through enchantment. The theme is not compulsory and you are encouraged to wear what makes you feel your best, dress to impress!

Unseen Rogue will be hosting at the beautiful Celestial Studios, a fully equipped kink and swing venue with an inspiring female presence. We want to create a safe, supportive and sexy environment for all of our ladies - cis, trans and non binary inclusive (AFAB and AMAB). We welcome all who identify as female or align with a female space.

The night will provide a fun, sensual ambience without pressure or expectation - Our goal is to simply give you space to explore whichever version of yourself you wish to. Women support women and this night will be full of it!

There will be displays to admire and inspire and you will have the opportunity to explore should you wish to. We can’t wait for you to join us 🖤 our community is building and you will be given access to our locked female only chat on the Unseen Lounge Discord server to better acquaint yourself with other guests ahead of the event, as well as our wider group of like minded women.

FAQs

Who are we?

Unseen Rogue is run by The Unseen Lounge which are community based swing social events in the East Midlands. Our social events are held in exclusive public venues and are for swing/enm/poly/kink folk to meet like minded others and build connections in the lifestyle. Check out our Instagram @theunseenlounge

We have an active Discord server to get better acquainted with our wonderful community. The server has a locked female only channel which you will be given access to on purchasing a ticket (please email requesting the link), this if for Rogue guests as well as our wider network of Unseen Lounge ladies.

Unseen Rogue started in March 2022 after seeing a need for female spaces both social and play. Regardless of sexuality, we found that exploring in an all female environment without male gaze allowed for a more natural and expressive experience.

Who is this event for?

Women of all backgrounds and experiences who have an interest in exploring themselves and others in a swing and kink environment - There is no expectation on sexuality, you are welcome to join and simply enjoy a powerful female led space.

We are proud to be an inclusive event and welcome cis and trans women and non binary people (AMAB and AFAB) - anyone who aligns with a female space is welcome. We do not discriminate against anatomy, gender identity or gender expression, we just ask you bring your authentic self.

What should I expect?

It is a warm and welcoming event with no pressure or expectation. There will be music, displays, you may see people play and kink - check out our section on etiquette.

There may be different styles of play, some sexual without kink, some rope, electrics, impact play, pet play. People may attend in pre existing or negotiated play/dynamics such as Master/slave, Domme/sub.

What should I wear?

We set a theme to have fun with, this can be any interpretation or variation you wish! There are no limits and full and partial nudity is allowed. The theme is not mandatory, we want you to feel your best, dress to impress.

How do I act, what is the etiquette?

Basic courtesy and consent is expected at all times, this is irrespective of what is being worn or what may be happening.

We are introducing red/amber/green wristbands to help identify what levels of play people may be interested in. Red - I’m here to enjoy but not to play. Amber - I’m not sure but maybe we can talk later. Green - Come say hi!

It is normal and is expected for you to ask before touching someone in any context, this does not just relate to sexual contact. You may not have experienced latex before ‘can I feel it’, you may be interacting with a pet player for the first time ‘can I give you a head pat?’. Do not make assumptions on how someone wants to be treated based on how others interact with them.

Not everyone there wants to play with others or they may attend in a pre existing dynamic.

If there are people playing in an open space, keep a respectful distance and where possible ask if it’s ok to watch.

If someone is playing in a private room with the door closed, the assumption would be they do not want to be watched. If the door is open and it is a smaller space, respectfully make your presence known and ask to watch. It can be very distracting for the players as well as potentially dangerous (impact and various play equipment) to have people walk into a ‘scene’ unawares and in close proximity.

Whilst watching remain quiet and keep talking to a minimum, you can move away to talk then come back.

All of the above considerations should be observed with sexual and sensual acts. If you wish to join, make your presence known and ask the parties involved. If they decline do not take offence and move away.

I’m very shy!

A lot of our first time guests feel nervous but once you’ve been, those nerves turn to excitement. We recommend getting involved on Discord to chat to people, there is always talk of outfit ideas and where to find them. We have a wonderfully supportive network of women.

No, I mean I’m REALLY shy…I don’t know how to approach someone!

As a little bit of fun and to help your flirt game, you will be given a limited number of ‘flirt tokens’ to spend wisely. If you’re stuck for words, find yourself talking about politics and weather conditions, just hand them a token to let them know you are actually flirting with them! Things may progress or they may not but at least your intentions are clear. If someone doesn’t wish to partake then don’t feel hurt or offended, we all have reasons and preferences and it’s just as much fun making friends in the lifestyle.

Where is it?

We hold our events at Celestial Studios which is a fully equipped kink and photography studio. There are themed open play rooms as well as private play rooms. All equipment is available to use but we ask that you are competent or ask for assistance, there are guides on how to safely use some of the larger items. Celestial Studios run their own kink events which are mixed gendered, check them out on Instagram @celestialstudiosderby

Is alcohol allowed?

There will be complimentary Prosecco on arrival and bottled water throughout the night. Previous events have been BYOB but this time we be running a fully licensed bar - check out the great cocktails! We ask guests to drink responsibly, due to its nature this is not an event centred around social drinking but a few to relax and enjoy is acceptable.

Are phones allowed?

Yes phones are allowed on your person and to take private photos but please ensure no one else is in the frame and do not take photos of others playing unless expressly requested by the players.

We do not have resident photography yet but are working on it. In the meantime our stewards are happy to take photos of you looking fabulous, these are for your personal use but when they are sent after the event, you will be given the option of consenting to use in publication.

Where can I find out more?

www.theunseenlounge.co.uk

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